There’s No Right Way, So Find Your Way

Just as there is no right way to parent...

There is no right way to do Valentine's Day.

It's all about finding your way, and that's an inside job.

If you're clear on how you want to celebrate (or not), great. Do that. If you're not clear, here are a few things you can do to find clarity.

First, pause.

Next, consider what you are amidst today.

Third, check in with yourself.
- What about this day brings you joy?
- What about this day makes you feel wobbly?

Who do you want to connect with?

And, how do you want to express your love?

What's your intention - how do you want to feel today?

What can you do to evoke more of those feelings?
- First, in yourself
- Next, with your others


Step back and allow yourself to tune into your knowing, I promise with a little space you'll find your way.

Happy Valentine's Day!

P.S. Episode 5 of Knot Parenting is available: There’s No Right Way, So Find Your Way - listen in for more of my thoughts on finding your way as a parent.

Carrie Contey